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Friday, August 12, 2011

concerned about my boyfriend(sent in by someone)

Ok well me and my bf have been together for almost five months and everything seems ok but about two months ago he started talking to dis other girl...he ensured me dat dis wasn't serious n he don't have feelings for her but I can't understand y he started talking to her n da first place can anyone give me sum advice as to y he did this and what should I do???

4 comments:

  1. Nobody can tell you why he did it but him. What I can say is if it bothers you that much you should just come out and tell him. If he cares for you he'll either do one of two things 1-get you two together so you can see it's nothing for yourself or 2-drop her all together. If he keeps pushing it off the next move is on you, nobody likes demands but suggest you have a get together and he invite her or go out to a lounge and see how they act and he introduces you.

    I will say this though. I do believe in men and women having friends of the opposite sex. My best friends are guys that I love dearly and one of them I only met his wife (who he knew years b4 me) once.....at their wedding. And we used to hang out EVERYDAY in college and after that talk until 2/3 in the morning about BS. So unless there are other signs or your gut is really churning, you may just be worried about nothing.

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  2. I feel ya gurl and i been through dat shit and some females are devious so be careful but gurlalmost all men arethe same..and females thes days dont make it no betta..
    so if he loves u gurl he aintgoin no where jus if he keep on do you..cause most men cheat and it jus plain as that..or even flirt with a boy in his face remind him dat he aint the only dudecheckin u out that usally get them in check men are so competitive!!

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  3. yu betta keep an eye on him cuz alot of girls r ....... nowadays. ( no offense) but when a man is horney and she temptin then.. lls shyt cud happen .. then they wana call it a mistake or an accident. lls give me a break, they knew wat dey was doing and they knew it was wrong. lol

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  4. If he's content with you then there's no point in him talking to other females. Maybe he is not ready for a commitment. Keep an eye on him. I don't think there's anything wrong with having friends but imo you don't need new friends of the opposite sex when ur in a relationship.

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